"A guy and a girl in one room"
While this sounds pretty fancy and bold, if you may. We need to sit back and talk about the whole setup in terms of our Indian Society. The Indian Society as I see it is roughly segregated in two sections. A section which is progressing and adapting to the changes around us. People who are broad minded and don’t shun away these bold ideas. The other section is left behind and is still stuck in the olden times. They are far from adopting to these changes around us and in a way poison any change they see around them. They will shrug at the mere thought of even talking about these things, let alone try to implement it.
"One bad apple spoils the whole bunch”
This saying is too old and has been overused. But it still perfectly fits the situation here. We all know how easily can people get influenced these days, try to sell something to them by saying the right things and they will easily be swayed. This applies to the human nature as well. We are all aware of the mishaps that are happening around the country. Straight from the National Capital Region to the remote villages. I don’t think I need to go into the details here. We have all read enough about them.
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I'll take my college, MIT, Manipal, for a case study here. We have most of the girls hostel blocks on one side and most of the boys hostels on one side. The Guards blow their whistles at the boys as soon as the clock strikes 2230. These whistles are a sign that it is time to leave the space and go back to their own marked space. This geographical division is important for something as huge as the MIT Campus to function. It gives the authorities a few lesser things to worry about. They don’t have to worry about whatever happens inside the hostels. They just make sure that the right people are in the right sectors after the right time and that is it.
Let’s assume that we had co-ed hostels on our campus. Straight off, we might see a dip in the amount of PDA on the streets. Jokes apart, I think the authorities will keep doing rounds and they will in the end result in creating geographical barriers inside the hostel as well. Because that is the only way the authorities can keep themselves satisfied. There are too many things to doubt here. A real life example will help in explaining why these boundaries will eventually come into play. IIM Calcutta is one of the premier institutes in India to have co-ed hostels. They have something called the Old Block. But they also have different wings for the girls. Essentially in our country that is the only way to make this thing work. You might have a co-ed hostel for the sake of it. Inside it, the story will be same.
In most Indian schools, the girls are made to sit on separate benches than the boys. They are told to maintain a safe distance at all times. While the modern thinkers might argue against this. I think that this is hard truth that is in effect in India. We have a different high school structures from the West and it is inevitable that we end up with having a different policy up through the ranks in the universities as well. In a country where the modern thinkers are forced to conduct gatherings like the “Kiss of Love” to prove it to people that boys and girl can co-exist safely and intimately. We are far away from hostels which allow random and unrelated boys and girl to live under the same roof, let alone in the same room. The country is not ready for it. The sad truth is that we might never be ready for it.
